Common Worlds

found reference to this book on Kevin Kelly's "Cool Tools" website.http://www.kk.org/cooltools/

Finite and Infinite Games

A finite game is played for the purpose of winning, an infinite game for the purpose of continuing the play.
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Finite players play within boundaries; infinite players play with boundaries.
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To be prepared against surprise is to be trained. To be prepared for surprise is to be educated.
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The death of an infinite player is dramatic. It does not mean that the game comes to an end with death; on the contrary, infinite players offer their death as a way of continuing the play. For that reason they do not play for their own life; they live for their own play.
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I can be powerful only by not playing, by showing that the game is over.
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Infinite players do not oppose the actions of others, but initiate actions of their own in such a way that others will play by initiating their own.
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Evil is the termination of infinite play.
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No one can play a game alone.
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There is but one infinite game.

Available at http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0345341848/ref=nosim/kkorg-20
Gotta get this one for myself.